Some people spend their entire lives wondering when death will come. Whether it be to themselve or the loved ones around them. Noone ever really understands that knowing when, or wondering in general when they may die, can be more emotionally troubling than when it happens. As terrible as it sounds, dwelling on that fact alone is more painfull than accepting death itsself. Even though that person is gone physically, this phrase will always remain true.

"I will live on in your heart." ~(original source unknown)~

That phrase alone is more powerfull than many peaople realize or even give credit for. Noone wants to be remembered for how or when they died. They just want to be remembered. Whether it be for thier personality or for things they've done. Accepting death isn't a dark thing. It's also obvious that it isn't an easy thing either. Although the most effective thing is to remembger that person for what they were. That is how they will live on for the rest of your life.

"Dont take death as a sign of misfortune. Take death as a sign of generosity. A generous token of selflessness bestowed upon the universe to help change it." ~SacrosanctShane~

Death seen as a catalyst for anything good may seem barbaric, but it helps us grow... Everyone...